Taking the first step
Sometimes we want to do certain things, but our standards, morals and principles are in conflict with what we're considering. Sometimes it's the feeling that we deserve better, can do better or need to try harder. Many times it boils down to...
either sacrificing your values or living in fear and doubt about taking the next step. None of these work - that's like the devil and the deep blue sea. The solution - pay attention to what your needs, wants and desires are at the moment and what the situation/circumstance calls for and make moves towards your heart's calling. A man plots AND takes moves not because he isn't scared; but because he needs to. Take a leap of faith, make the first move and set the ball rolling. The ball is ALWAYS in your court. You are always in charge of your destiny.